My Brother

My father says that a lot of my brother's behavior problems come from his foster care when he was two-years-old. When he was in foster care, my brother kept company with boys who were much older than he was and they would bend his fingers back so they touched the top of his hand. And then, according to my father, they would all laugh at this, including my two-year-old brother. And this experience and experiences like this when my brother was two-years-old... these experiences are what's causing my brother to act out against my father. These are the experiences that make my brother defiant. My father, according to my father, is powerless to help my brother because of these experiences. There is nothing that my father can do because the damage has been done.

My brother was diagnosed by somebody as having ADHD. I told my father that diagnosis was incorrect. He didn't listen to me. My brother went on medication for ADHD. My brother reported to everyone that these drugs made him feel "bad", like he "wasn't here". His behavior did not change. My father took him off medication. My father has not noticed a difference. My brother says he feels better without the medication.

At what point in life is it okay for me to be furious that my father is a complete moron? It's absolutely infuriating to me that my father is as blindly stupid and grossly incompetent as he is, because not only was it harmful to me growing up and caused me to work really hard to shake myself free from his injurious parenting, but it's harmful to my brother and sister. He's a dildo and he married a dildo and their both dildos and should be shot in their dildo faces with a dildo. Fucking fucks.