Real Thought

I know that I'm not trying to change him.
I KNOW that he will not change.
And it makes me upset when people say that I am trying to change him.
Because I know that I'm not.
So what is my thought that's causing the upset?
I think the truest thought is that it doesn't matter to the legal system that he's broken the rules.
It doesn't matter that he got into a legal arrangement which he immediately disregarded and our system has done nothing.
It doesn't matter that he's breaking the law, and the law says that's okay.
THAT'S where my distress comes from.

So now my thought should be, "Sure does suck that our legal system is broken and doesn't have the balls to stand up for itself. I can't do anything about it. Shit happens."

Ah, yes! NOW I feel better!