Court Update

My wife has taken to not telling me new developments in our court proceeding. I don't know if she's done this on purpose because she doesn't want to upset me, or if our lives are simply too busy with other things. Or maybe she forgets. Whatever the case, it's not really a big deal. I just wanted to record the latest in the fiasco.

Dick Lawyer for Bloodfart had his assistant call my wife's attorney to set up a meeting with himself, Bloodfart, my wife, her attorney and the guardian ad litem. Our attorney asked what it was in reference to, and the assistant said that Dick Lawyer hadn't said what it was about. Our attorney said that she would not agree to a costly meeting without knowing what it was in reference to. Dick Lawyer writes a letter, saying that lawyer relations had been strained and they all needed to meet to discuss things. Again, he did not really answer the question as to what the meeting was about.

Meantime, my wife goes to her last therapy session, where the therapist shows up and is surprised to see her there. Therapist tells my wife that she had spoken with Bloodfart, who said that he couldn't make this appointment. She had called him twice to reschedule, and he hadn't returned her phone calls as yet. She was surprised that my wife was there, as "[Bloodfart] said you two were communicating better," to which my wife told her that nothing had changed and communication hadn't gotten any better. The therapist suggested that Bloodfart had changed, and my wife told Therapist that Bloodfart had not changed, had not made any attempts to change, and would not change in the future. That any indication that Bloodfart had changed was a fabrication. And if they were supposed to come to therapy to assist in communication that would help the boys, she had done everything suggested to her in counseling, and Bloodfart had done nothing. Bloodfart had remained uncooperative while stating he had changed. My wife asked why they were continuing with therapy when it was obvious that Bloodfart would not change his actions, nor would he tell Therapist that he was unwilling to change, as it would look bad in court.

My wife said that she would like to meet with the therapist again, alone, to tell the therapist that the report she is to write at the conclusion of her counseling with us is going to be used to determine if Bloodfart should remain as the "final decision maker" in the matter of the boys. My wife is certain that Therapist hasn't been told this information, as neither Bloodfart, Bloodfart's attorney, and the guardian ad litem would not have told her this information, which is essential to the perspective of the report. And even in light of all that Bloodfart has done and continues to refuse to do, it is best if the writer of the report knows the full implications of her report prior to writing it.

It would be nice if Bloodfart died today.
And then his obese body fell on his attorney, crushing him.
And then they both fell on the goddam guardian ad litem, and she died, too.
And all three of them fell on our first attorney, and she was aborted.
And all four of them fell on my wife's mother, who would get a really painful disease, cry without comfort, and then die from being crushed.
And then I win the lottery.
And then I sleep for a really long time.
And then I take my wife to the bar where I used to go, and we would get a couple of LaBatt Blue beers on draught and play some trivia. And eat some hot wings.
And then we would sleep for a really long time together.
And take some strong drugs that would make us think that this whole mess was just a dream.
And then we would sleep some more.
And another round of beers.

It would be nice.